Over the past month, there have been quite a few articles on various websites about successful coaching, the art of coaching, coaching 101, effective coaching, or any other name you want to give it. These articles provide some very useful coaching principles including the importance of being present, knowing how to recognize and then correct poor technique, avoid negative cues and use praise when appropriate, and many others.
While these are obviously time tested principles, there is another extremely important variable that has been left out...the individual coaches communication style and their own values...